SLF Blog

When I Left, They Left

Date: October 11, 2023 | by Selfless Love Foundation

KeShuna B.

Wichita Falls, Texas

If I’m writing from my heart, a permanent connection is something I’ve never experienced. To me, the connection leaves when you leave care. I aged out of foster care at 19. For me, that’s when life started.

Although foster care was a horrible experience for me, I did have some adults who stuck their necks out and did everything they could to help me. Some were positive, some were negative but at the time that didn’t matter. There were times when I was my only supportive adult and I got myself through whatever I needed to. If I had a permanent connection, I would have a better story but it’s something that I lacked while in and out of foster care.

A permanent connection would have been cherished and amazing to hold on to. It’s also something I still crave. It hurts not to have just one connection in your life that matters that you know is permanent and will always be there. Instead, it feels as if you never have anyone because when you leave, they will too.

Tags: Foster Care, Selfless Love Foundation, Youth

Selfless Love Foundation - Give the Gift of Family
Selfless Love Foundation Blog - Don’t Lose Hope

Don’t Lose Hope

I feel better and have greater personal pleasure in my life when I am connected to the people I love. I’m satisfied with my life when I feel connected.

My Story Selfless Love Foundation

My Story

Bilquis T. Lake City, FL My name is Bilquis Thompson, and this is my story. When I was 14, I was separated from my family and placed in foster care.

Selfless Love Foundation Blog - The Importance of Permanent Connections and Supportive Adults

The Importance of Permanent Connections and Supportive Adults

Permanent connections refer to long-term relationships that provide a stable and nurturing environment for children and adolescents.

Close The Pet Shop Protecting the Safety and Privacy of Children in Foster Care

Close The Pet Shop: Protecting the Safety and Privacy of Children in Foster Care

Diamond W. recalls the initial discussions about adoption photo listings as powerful. As a youth advocate, Diamond helped to facilitate a round-table discussion in 2022 with fellow youth impacted by foster care.

Selfless Love Foundation 10 Years - A Decade of Dedication