OUR IMPACT

ADOPTION

Selfless Love Foundation believes that every child deserves a family.

There are over 100,000 children waiting to be adopted from foster care in the United States.

Most of the children in foster care who are available for adoption are over the age of eight, many are part of a sibling group, and all have experienced some level of trauma.
There are no unwanted children, just unfound families.

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Selfless Love Foundation is the solution!

Support

608

TOTAL
ADOPTIONS

Leadership

845

FAMILIES
SERVED

Engagement

294

SIBLINGS KEPT TOGETHER

Selfless Love Families

THE JOURNEY TO FOREVER

Building a family through adoption is an exciting and rewarding journey. Selfless Love Families is dedicated to guiding families every step of the way, ensuring they are on the fastest path to success.

Selfless Love Families aims to help the most vulnerable children in foster care, including sibling groups, teenagers, and youth with medical needs, find their forever families. We provide personal support to families and resources to agencies to streamline the adoption process.

But our commitment doesn’t end there.

Our post-adoption support continues to offer guidance, resources, and community connections, helping families adjust, thrive, and grow after finalization, ensuring long-term success and stability for both children and parents.

Selfless Love Foundation Adoptions

Benefits for Families

  • Monthly virtual support groups

  • One-on-one guidance from an Adoption Connector

  • Access to a private portal with training resources and updates

  • Youth Spotlight on waiting children

  • Quarterly learning sessions

  • Family Spotlights

  • Media opportunities

  • Adoption Connection Events and post-adoption celebrations

    All services are free!

Benefits for Partner Agencies

  • Annual grants to support adoption home studies

  • Increased visibility for youth through spotlights

  • Support for National Adoption Day and connection events

  • Custom marketing materials for outreach and celebration

  • Access to a statewide network of adoption professionals 

Interested in partnering? Community Based Care Agencies and Case Management Organizations are invited to contact us to learn more about collaboration opportunities.

Ideal candidates

  • Have an approved adoption home study
  • Are willing to consider a sibling group
  • Are open to a child over the age of 8
  • Understand our children come with experiences, challenges, and connections that deserve to be understood and honored
Selfless Love Foundation Circuits and Counties served

Florida impact

  • 11 Circuits in Florida
  • 39 Counties
  • 11 Partner Agencies
  • 150+ Pre-Adoptive Families Supported
  • 50+ Post-Adoptive Families Supported

Don’t see your county? We’d be happy to provide resources and connect you with someone in your area! 

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Watch the video to hear inspiring stories from Selfless Love Families on how adoption changed their lives.

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Adoptions

Thanks to our generous supporters, the community of Selfless Love Families continues to grow.

McClain Family

"We saw them on a zoom and kind of had a gut feeling that they were going to be our kids!" - Jaime

Pittenger Family

"There are so many more milestones with older kids. And it is so rewarding being a parent and being able to experience life with them." - Marisa

Thompson Family

"I finally have someone to care about me and have a family." - Willie

Are you one of the 200+ families we support through the Selfless Love Families Program? 

Click below to access your private adoption portal.

 

FAQ’s About Adoption

Who can adopt a child?

To be eligible to adopt a child or sibling group, you may be married or single, already a parent or have never been a parent. You can live in an apartment or own your home, be a person of modest means or wealth. 

The most important requirement is unwavering commitment. If you can provide love and the basics for a child, you can be an adoptive parent. 

What is a home study and why is it required?

A home study is written documentation of your background, parenting style, and readiness to adopt. The assessment will include interviews of all household members, home visits, background checks, personal references, and training.

Can LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples adopt?

LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples have the legal right to adopt in every state. LGBTQIA+ youth are disproportionately represented in foster care, often waiting longer for their forever family.

Is adopting through foster care expensive?
When you adopt a child from foster care, most states will cover fees relating to pre-adoptive training and home studies. There may be expenses related to attorney fees and court costs, but these may be reimbursed by the state. Adoptive parents should also be prepared to incur costs relating to visiting their prospective child in their home state.
What are the financial requirements (if any) to adopt a child in care?

The acceptable income level varies depending on each situation. An individual or family’s income will be addressed as part of the home study to ensure that an adoptive parent is currently financially stable and able to provide for the basic needs of a child.

How long does the adoption process take?
The process varies from state to state, but the background checks, adoptive parent training and home study can usually be completed in less than nine months.
Will I receive a complete history of the child I adopt?

Yes. One of the benefits of adopting from the state is having access to a comprehensive case history. You will be given information on the child’s medical background, foster placements, and developmental level. You will also be given insight into the child’s personality, habits, hobbies, aspirations, likes and dislikes, connections to family and existing ties to their community.

Can the biological parents take the child back?
Children in the foster care system do not become legally eligible for adoption until a court has terminated their birth parents’ parental rights. In certain situations, a child may be placed with a prospective adoptive family in what’s known as a legal-risk or “at-risk” placement—meaning the child is not yet legally free for adoption. Be sure to ask the adoption recruiter about the child’s legal status and fully understand any potential risks before moving forward.
What types of children are waiting to be adopted from foster care?
Many of the children waiting to be adopted from foster care are over the age of eight, part of a sibling group, or have special needs. All have experienced trauma or loss and will need extra support, whether emotionally, medically, or developmentally. Teens are often overlooked but want what every child wants—a loving, supportive family. Families open to these amazing children can make a life-changing difference.
Is post-adoption support provided?
Yes. Not all states offer the same post-adoption services, and support can vary widely depending on where you live. While most states provide some level of assistance, such as support groups, counseling, or Medicaid, others go further with services like trauma-informed therapy, respite care, or crisis intervention. These services are often funded through federal programs, but how they’re delivered is up to each state. We always recommend checking with your local agency to see what support is actually available where you live—it can make a big difference.
Benefits of adopting from foster care

Adoption provides the gift of family. It’s an opportunity to change a child’s life forever. Adopting a child from foster care also offers many special benefits to the family.

Affordability

While private forms of adoption can cost upwards of $30,000, adopting from foster care has minimal costs. The required adoptive parent training class and home study are provided typically free of charge, and even court costs and fees may be paid by the agency.

College Tuition

Many children adopted from foster case qualify for a college tuition waiver.

Common Interests

When you adopt from foster care, you may find a child with similar interests, or whose needs match the strengths of your family. There are available children who love sports, music, computers, animals, and many other interests.

Monthly Financial Support

Many children qualify for an adoption subsidy.

Health Care

Many children qualify for Medicaid upon adoption.

Federal Adoption Tax Credit

Tax benefits for adoption include both a tax credit for qualified adoption expenses paid to adopt an eligible child and an exclusion from income for employer-provided adoption assistance. The credit is nonrefundable, which means it’s limited to your tax liability for the year. However, any credit in excess of your tax liability may be carried forward for up to five years. The maximum amount (dollar limit) for 2021 is $14,440 per child.

Older Children

There are real advantages to adopting an older child. First of all, the long trek from diapers to college is shortened considerably if the child you are adopting is 10, 14, or even 16. You may be sharing more fishing trips or football games than sleepless nights with an infant.

Siblings

The dream of having a big family become reality if you adopt a sibling group. The bond among siblings is powerful. By adopting a sibling group, you are giving brothers and sisters a chance to grow up together in a new family – yours.

Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.

-helen keller