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It was a rare occasion when I felt truly listened to and supported while I was in foster care. When I finally felt that my voice was heard, I became more hopeful that I could not only change my life in more positive ways but might also change the lives of other children in the system. I had been a well-behaved student, and I never had issues with other students or teachers. I passed my classes. I felt I was doing my best, but I struggled to understand academic material.

When I was 14, and in my third foster home placement, my foster parents noticed I had difficulty reading and spelling. I was not performing at the same academic level as my peers. My foster parents requested testing for a learning disability. This request was made to my new school, and permission was sought from county social services. The county responded that I was doing well in school. I had no behavior problems and they thought I had good grades. The county had only viewed me based on my report cards.

After a difficult time receiving permission to be evaluated by a private neuropsychologist, I was diagnosed with dyslexia. The school had diagnosed me with a reading learning disability and did not acknowledge my diagnosis of dyslexia. They placed me in a special class for students who could not read. This class did not help me and only frustrated me more because I was not receiving the help I needed. 

One of my special education teachers realized my potential and accommodated my needs, encouraging me to believe I could improve. It wasn’t until my senior year of high school, during retesting, that my school finally recognized me as a person with dyslexia. My parents, teachers, and I had been advocating for this identification. The acknowledgment increased my self-confidence. I know I can further excel in life and have the potential to help others advocate for themselves.

I have found my voice, and I hope this will encourage you as well. 


Dana Barrett is a Peer Specialist at the New York State Office of Children and Family Services. Dana is attending University at Albany for a master’s in Social Work and Criminal Justice. She advocated  for youth and young adults who are aging out of the system.


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